Interview by " Roggyrugrat "

The Rules  

According to Paul (robbermouse), creator of this game.
- you can ask me 5 questions that I'll try to answer for you... send them in a PM titled INTERVIEW and I'll blog the answers...
- keep the questions relatively clean...
- this is reciprocal... if you interview me... you can bet your ass I'm gonna do it to you... so - - - sending me questions is an agreement to play this
- I'm also gonna ID you so don't ask anything you don't wanna put your hand up for...
- this is not a tag...





The Questions

1. What is the one thing or trait you have that you would never change or trade in for something else?

My unconditional love for people.  Not sure where it came from, but it has flourished within me as I've gotten older and more in touch with who I am.  I am always able to put myself in perspective,and am now learning to do the same to others...



2. If you were in a position of authority and you found someone to be stealing, and this person begs you because he or she is desperate and only stole because his or her family is starving, what would you do?

I would still punish them, but the punishment would not be so harsh that it takes away that person's esteem....because I would be thinking, there but for the grace of God goes I.  I can't say what I would do if in that same situation.  I believe in showing mercy, because I know I am going to need some, too.....



3. What is your most embarrassing moment?

Well, that's hard.  I can think of only one embarrassing moment right now, and that was with my stepfather.  When I was 30 years old, I became involved in a lesbian relationship with my then best friend.  We were together all the time.  When we came to my house, my stepfather would inadvertently make passes at her because he thought we were just friends.  I guess he found out we were more than friends, somehow,and he asked me straight up, in front of my son, my sisters, and my girlfriend, "You fucking this woman?  Is you? Is you and this woman fucking?"  He was so mad.  I didn't answer him, but everyone knew...except him.

It destroyed our close friendship and we've been estranged every since.  I probably seen him maybe 10 times since then, and he said I would ruin my son's life by being with a woman.  My son is now 23 yrs old and very masculine.  He loves women, and he loves me, probably more now than then....



4. What do you prefer in a man - strong sturdy arms and a wall of a chest or taut thighs, irresistible abs and hard iron ass?

LOL.  I love all of those things on a man!  I love looking at sexy men, and seeing sexy couples of men and women.  I think the arms, and the 6pack do a little something for me  lol  

Now if you asked me about a woman, that's a whole new ballgame  !



5. There are many different meanings of love, as it is subjective to different people. What is your definition of love?

My definition of love is simply the agape definition (unselfish love of one person for another).   Love is the most powerful force on Earth.  It is able to make you kill.  It can heal you, drive you, and stop you right in your tracks.  It will not be denied.  It cannot be contained...and when it is all said and done...only love will be standing.