Kindness
In the quest to create a gentler, more loving world, kindness is the easiest tool we can use. Though it is easy to overlook opportunities to be kind, our lives are replete with situations in which we can be helpful, considerate, thoughtful, and friendly to loved ones and associates, as well as strangers.
The touching, selfless acts of kindness that have the most profoundly uplifting effects are often the simplest: a word of praise, a gentle touch, a helping hand, a gesture of courtesy, or a smile.
Such small kindnesses represent an unconditional, unrestricted form of love that we are free to give or withhold at will. When you give the gift of kindness, whether in the form of assistance, concern, or friendliness, your actions create a beacon of happiness and hope that warms people’s hearts.
The components of kindness are compassion, respect, and generosity. Put simply, kindness is the conscious act of engaging others in a positive way without asking whether those individuals deserve to be treated kindly.
All living beings thrive on kindness. A single, sincere compliment can turn a person’s entire world around. Holding a door or thanking someone who has held a door for you can inspire others to practice politeness and make already kind individuals feel good about their efforts.
Smiling at people you meet—even those who make you feel like frowning—can turn a dreary encounter into a delightful one, for both of you. Every kind act has a positive influence on the individual who has performed said act as well as on the recipient, regardless of whether the act is acknowledged.
Kindness brings about more kindness and slowly but surely takes a positive toll on humanity.
Weaving the thread of kindness into your everyday life can be as easy as choosing to offer a hearty “Good morning” and “Good night” to your coworkers or neighbors, a stranger on the street, or the grocery store clerk.
When you commit a kind act, you are momentarily disconnected from your ego and bonded with the individual who has benefited from your kindness.
Being fully present in each moment of your life facilitates kindness as it increases your awareness of the people around you. You’ll discover that each act of kindness you engage in makes the world, in some small way, a better place.
What are some ways we can spread kindness to each other...?

we can give without an expectation of something in return.....
ReplyDeleteWe can give trust to those we claim to love and always think the worst first...
ReplyDelete"When you commit a kind act, you are momentarily disconnected from your ego and bonded with the individual who has benefited from your kindness. "
ReplyDeleteSassy, I have experienced that freely loving someone, without reparations is actually the highest source of agape love. I know some people are skeptical of real love, and some question it's motives. it does require that we forget ourselves, and bond with the feeling that can carry us through anything....
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.....
You can put others first in certain situations. Great post Joycie,I read this also today. Can you do a cross post in the group,I was going to post it there,but since you already got it up and going please..... lol. Thanks ~smile~
ReplyDeleteNikki, Trust is a tricky venture....in that it plants us right in the middle of vulnerable situations, especially where the heart is concerned. Eros love calls for trust, and is founded upon trust....but that trust still has to be nurtured, just as those kind words, those good deeds, and those 'I love you's"
ReplyDeleteCaring about people, trusting them...and loving them is so different...everytime you meet another person. Every time those three words come out...it means something else
Okay....thank you for commenting...You got me to thinking lol
The components of kindness are compassion, respect, and generosity. Put simply, kindness is the conscious act of engaging others in a positive way without asking whether those individuals deserve to be treated kindly.
ReplyDeleteThese are no truer words ever spoken.
But there are some people no matter what u do may take ones kindness as weakness.
Which i don't agree. If your kind to people you will get it back in many forms.
My husband passed away 8 yrs ago from cancer.
During his time of illness as well as his death many people showed compassion and kindness.
As well as coming by to see what i needed done in my home or just to go to the store for me. That i will never forget. And i would be there to help them 2 when needed.
Goddess
Deep....As in agape love, it does not think of self at all. We the ones who got it twisted...calling love everything it's not. lol
ReplyDeleteI will post in BMU...in a few
Thanks for commenting...
And that should have been a WE not a You. I am sure you knew It was not directed towards you,but towards the post muah. That is something I need work on myself,not thinking it's all about me at times ~smile~
ReplyDeleteTrue indeed Joyce...trust somewhat ties into them all....to care and love takes a level of the one that is loving/caring taking a step out on faith to unleash emotions from within....and as opposite to trust to takes a certain level of love/care because trust is not just an act it can also be viewed as an emotion because trust doesn't always deal in actions...the unspoken can be just as powerful...true indeed they are different but they all tie into together in some way when deal with true unconditional care/love and trust....thanks for the interesting blog...very thought provoking and insightful
ReplyDeleteGoddess.....there really are kind people still among us. I see it every day. I am trying to be just like them. they are those people who look happy, and are at Peace being the image of Love/God.
ReplyDeleteI really appreciate you,because you are one of the people who accept all sides of me, and you respond accordingly..and you seem at peace with yourself. I know...the real loving ones always make themselves vulnerable..and are not ashamed to care
Thanks for your wonderful words.....
" and as opposite to trust to takes a certain level of love/care because trust is not just an act it can also be viewed as an emotion because trust doesn't always deal in actions...the unspoken can be just as powerful...true indeed they are different but they all tie into together in some way when deal with true unconditional care/love and trust...."
ReplyDeleteSee, Nikki, I like you, because you keep it real..and you keep me up on my toes. I like to be made to think just a lil bit more....lol
I haven't read your daily OM's that much because I didn't know if they were just pertaining to religious aspects (no offense to religion..please don't take it that way) but now I see it's more and you welcome everyone's opinion which is great...I love reading/writing poetry but I love even more good blogs/convo which inspire healthy opinions and debate...thanks for todays thoughts...I shall come back more often and check it out...
ReplyDeletecool..and I promise to try to have more blogs "with" discussions lol
ReplyDeleteHence...feeding the mind, the body, and the spirit.....
ReplyDeleteSmile Nikki the Daily OM is more spiritual then religious. I am so not religious,but I am very spiritual. It is a great nurturing and learning tool for life, I feel. I take from it what feeds my spirit,body,mind and leave the rest there. Here is the site if you would like to receive the OM's Daily. They even give your daily horoscope.
ReplyDeletehttp://www.dailyom.com/
It's some great information that goes unshared on some days. I think we all share that TODAY'S one when it hit home. What you think Joycie? lol
Mentallydeep...thanks for the info i'll make sure i check it out...heading there now..
ReplyDelete.......I can hear DEEP saying..."Each one, teach one..."lol
ReplyDeleteuh huh my motto "Each One Teach One and don't forget the Reach One part lol. We have not because we seek not. Knowledge and wisdom is power ~smile~
ReplyDeleteAmen!
ReplyDeleteJust looking at the title again......SPREADING LOVE, EFFORTLESSLY
How many can say they do...effortlessly? lol
I can't it takes alot of work lol. I am selective who get my love,but I am getting better tsk lol hahaha
ReplyDeleteYou something else...so loving...lol
ReplyDeleteI think I do it fairly effortlessly...but there are times when it has a lil too much of this..and a lil not enough of that lol
ReplyDeleteI'm still growing, though....
Each one..teach one..indeed...also a great leader must be a great follower which means a person of great intellect shows it by being willing to be taught as well as teach...thanks for info today ladies..oh and Joyce when you get the chance check out my new blog and give me your input...thanks
ReplyDeleteHey Coop, sorry Poe is late on this. I say simply to say what you and others already said...A warm smile, kind deed, and sometimes just a listening ear. Not advise given...just someone to listen to them. I know I smell like smoke cause I stood and talked to the corner hotdog vendor this morning. LOL. He had a lot to say....all because I smiled,said hello and brought something to drink. Sometimes...they just want you to listen. Thanks for sharing. Love ya!
ReplyDeletePoe...live your life with love..and you can't go wrong! I know the kind of person you are...and your light shines..continuously....
ReplyDeleteChrist, the greatest leader was also the greatest servant to man....(food for thought). But let me play the devils advocate here for a minute...(heh, heh, heh,). Better yet, let me not.
ReplyDeleteLove the post Joyce.... it's just a freaking scary world we live in when simple acts of kindness is received with (how did Sharon say it...) with expectations! We live in a world where people are so love starved that the slightest demonstration of affection care and appreciation for a fellow human being is misconstrued, laced, frilled and buttons added! Then people fear...fear to smile...touch and share themselves.
But how can we cease from these small acts when it's what separates up from the barbaric and the heart that has waxed cold?
K, the trade off is the difference between representing God, and love as we should, or always feeling like our deeds will be thrown back into our face. Most do not like reaching out, for different reasons...but I have elarned, that no man is an island, and we all are gonna need somebody....at some point.
ReplyDeleteJust keep on loving..and let God get His glory...and let's not try to let humans deter our destiny....
Another thinker in the house.....I like that!!!!!!!
Joyce...I so agree with you. I remember a few years ago ( I shared this story with you before on another site) I was driving home from work. It was winter...bitterly cold and raining. This young woman was walking with this baby bundled tightly and I remember driving by...and something...or someone told me to stop (I don't normally do this at all!) Anyway, I stopped and backed up my car, rolled the window down and asked her where she was going. She was going to the store to get formula for the baby, diaper and also something for dinner. I told her to come in the car...she hesitated, looked deep in my face and came in the car with the baby almost glued to her body. I drove her to the store, waited until she got what she needed then drove her home.
ReplyDeleteShe tried to pay me!!!!!!! I am thinking to myself, if she had the money to spare, she would have called a cab in that weather! I smiled and told her that not everything in life comes with a price. Gave her my card and told her to get the baby out of the cold and take care of herself.
She still calls me every now and again. But I can tell you, that day...I drove home on a natural high!!!!!
That is what this blog is all about!!!!
ReplyDeleteEnough said.....
But how the hell do I get this woman to call me "Victoria" instead of "Ms Victoria???" No matter how I beg her to call me Victoria...just Victoria. She laughs shyly and says OK, and in the very next sentence, she says "Ms Victoria!"
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