I was just looking through blogs, cuz I getz bored sometimes, and I came across this very interesting post, that caught my eye, and I wanted to share it, as it contains an issue that is close to my heart....
"....I was gon rhyme and shit on this one. Then i said I aint rhymin...I want my contacts to see how good my pen is. I dont need to rhyme all tha time. i can say what i got to say without it. Today..I'm talkin bout gay brods. But before yall get mad and shit...my momma a dike. I love my momma. I'll give my left nut for her. When I was a kid...i used to see her kissing women and shit. When I got older...I said to myself..Daddy didnt have no good dick. But..i knew i had to be wrong. Hell. I got good dick. I read some bad ass poems that some brods wrote. I said damn.. That bad ass brod gay! I had three girlfriends that was gay. All i really wanna know is can good dick and a good man bring a woman back round to a nicca? A lot of niccas be beating they brods. If i was a brod..I'd turn to anotha brod too for some lovin. Shit..these niccas dont know how to treat these brods. Beatin they ass and shit. I tell you right now..i cant compete wit no hard ass dildo. I can grind a long time..but a dildo stay hard all tha damn time. But..I don't really think a brod can move her hips like a nicca when it come to grindin. We was born wit dick.. Its natural for a nicca. Women have to practice that shit. A nicca can stand up in tha pussy too. I dont know if a woman can do dat. Sometimes i wonder if a gay brod had a nicca stand up in dat pussy..would she turn back to niccas. hell..i dont know. i know this much. its some bad ass brods on here..they gay..but dem brods can write like hell.
Blaccman was here...talkin bout gay brods and good dick...yea boy!!!...."
MY RESPONSE:
I saw this title, and my eyes kept coming back to the title. didn't know what to expect. But, It's a honest flow from a brother who really just wants to know...LOL
I'd be lying if I said some don't go back to a good dick, or some go back for many reasons...Hell, some are just playing around cuz the sex is good, some being a rebel, or trying something different. But, to some of us it is a life choice. For the good and the bad that can come out of it. Being ostracized by guys, by your family, by even your own upbringing. It is hard to say, because it's an individual choice.
I had good dick, and it turned me on. Turns me off now, because it's attached to ignorance, and a homophobic mind, that once loved me so much he would do anything for me.......except understand my wishes.
If you a good brother, be the best man you can be, to all women, and learn to respect diversity. If they come back, they come back, but, if they dont, they still a woman!
As a Black women, raising a Black man in this society..I feel it behooves me to at the very least attempt understanding of or repect towards those who may differ from myself, be it in sexuality (amongst concenting adults..sorry pedophilia is a sickness), religious view, or cultural difference.
ReplyDeleteNaturali..I agree with you....
ReplyDeleteI also am raising a son, 18, to respect diversity..in all forms...WHat we don't know makes many more worlds...
Ok Joyce I have to be me....
ReplyDeleteI can fuck a woman standing up, lying down, against a wall, in a car, on a bus, a train, tie to a bed, bend over, bend under AND bring her flowers, pull out her chair, open her doors make love to her and bring tears to her eyes....PLUS
I have all shapes, sizes, colors.....
Ok I'm done.....sorry Joyce...I had to go there...
Ummmmm, Daddi...Pssst, Daddiiii....Commere.....
ReplyDeleteI think I get what you saying.... I feel that you feel strongly, about what you feel. You feel me?
It's about respect and understanding. Ignorance runs rampant when one is not informed. I used to get mad when I would read a post like this. Now all I do is chalk it us as plain ole ignorance. No amount of "good dick" will ever change me. This is who I am. This is who I will always be.
ReplyDeleteI concur with your words, Honey. And everything about it is a matter of choice. Just as one chooses to go to college, or not.
ReplyDeleteWe often hear the quip, 'you can't help who you love...' It is true. You can run from it, and try to reason it away, but you ggot stories of people on up in age, either coming out...or living their lives in shame and unhappiness...
I applaud you, because like me, have made a life choice.
I guess I must be miss diversity, because I see people first and their choices second. If the way another lives their life doesn't harm them or anyone else, I'm not going to knock it. It is simple if you accept me for who I am nappy locs, knocked knees, bad choices, and any imperfections I have then I will accept you unconditionally too. That don't mean that everyone I meet I like, but I just think like is too short to judge others.
ReplyDeleteI have no room to judge anyone. I know what I want for myself...I happen to love the male species over that of women. I've been on both sides of the fence and feel its a matter of personal preference. There are men that just wonder because they wonder if the stick will bring back the chicks, but forget that for most women...they actually are IN LOVE with women. I grew up with a gay woman as a parent too, but it did make me aware that I had choices in whom I wanted to love. I could choose between a man or a woman...I was also taught there are spiritual implications, but I feel that's between that person and their God. I can only love the person. I don't like everyone, but I do respect their lifestyle choices and expect the same.
ReplyDeleteJavelle...I feel you! I can't think of the Bible verse , to quote it correctly, but it goes something like..." how can you love God, whom you have never seen, and not love your brother, whom you have seen..."
ReplyDeleteWe spend too much time on so unimportant aspects of people, taking our eyes off God, by judging people. Regardless of whether I choose a man, or a woman, I am still a person. ANd, not only preferences, but religion, sex, and nationalities....
Thank you for commenting. We will just go on being friends, and love as God commanded us..and let the world go to Hell....LOL
Midwest Chick...I did not grow up in a gay lifestyle. It was a choice I made when I was 30. My life is my own to live. My brother died, 'in the closet"...and I will not let my life die, or my desires for what I choose to be influenced by people who don't know me, or have a say in my daily living.
ReplyDeleteI understand that there are people who still do not understand, or accept. That's fine. A man, with a good 'dick' was not enough to make me refrain from becoming who I was destined to be. I use the word destiny, because it has been a journey for me, but the best part of me is not my sexual organs, or what I can do in bed.....it's what's in my heart..and how I treat others
Thanks for your warm comment....
Joyce,
ReplyDeletethat is by far one of my MOST favorite quotes of the Bible.
And so very true..
Naturali...Thank you.
ReplyDeleteAnd, one of mine is..."let the wheat, and the tarry grow together...God will do the seperating..."
The very people we put out of our lives can be the ones who teach us lessons noone else can...I learned from a young age, you can learn something, from anyone.....
Nat, that was a solid good answer...respect should be a given...respect for others should be what we teach our kids...
ReplyDeletelmao, um okay!
ReplyDeletedo you...peace
i believe we all need a discerning spirit and need not allow EVERYONE in our lives. I can respect another human being w/o having to accept them for all the choices they've made...that's only natural (and I expect the same in return).
ReplyDeletenappy locs & knock knees? LMAO! love ya cousin!
well said JA...you have a good heart and you (sometimes) treat others well! lol
ReplyDeletei agree chick...everyone has to be accountable for their own life decisions...that's the beauty of volition! peace
ReplyDeleteI think what people forget about the whole thing is that people evolve, grow, change. Either you can choose do wake up in the morning and go to work, or you can choose to not do it and get fired. You can choose to pay your bills or choose not to. Each choice carries its own consequence. Despite the consequences, we all have to live with our own choices and what we feel is best for us individually. We are not to judge one another. That's how I feel about it. I want everyone to be happy, healthy, and loving (yes, even my enemies) most of the time anyway. I may not agree with someones choice, but that doesn't mean that I can't respect them. I get so angry that people in general (black, white, gay, straight, transgendered, male, female, children, old folks) are treated with a general lack of respect. Respect and reverence is the beginning of understanding in most things. How can we ever resolve our differences if people remain disrespectful?
ReplyDeleteI guess we can't...unless we agree to understand, or agree to have disagreements.
ReplyDeleteall this comes with maturity, and enlightenment...
Loc..feel free to comment whenever you like...SMH...
ReplyDeletejust let me know when you're gonna be away..so I can fill in...Big sister!
hmmm..I'll have to come back on this one after football..be back
ReplyDeleteOk, Nikki..I hope you rooting for the redskins
ReplyDeleteLMAO...mmmkay!
ReplyDeleteJOYCE:
ReplyDeleteI JOHN 4:20--A PERSON CANNOT LOVE GOD, WHO HE HAS NOT SEEN AND HATE HIS BROTHER WHO HE SEES ALL OF THE TIME.
NATURALI:
MATTHEW 13:24-30 ESP VS 30...WHERE THE TWO ARE TO GROW TOGETHER UNTIL THE HARVEST, THE WHEAT AND THE WEEDS....THEN THE SEPARATING WORK WILL TAKE PLACE...
Thank you so much, Sistahpoet! I know its in there, I jus cant get the verses right...
ReplyDeleteHow are u tonight?
IT HAPPENS LIKE THAT SOMETIMES...YOU HAD THAT VERSE PERFECTLY RIGHT..I KNOW THAT VERSE CAUSE SO MANY FOLKS CLAIM TO LOVE GOD AND YET MIGHT HATE A PERSON AND SEE THEM ALL THE TIME...BIBLE CALLS THEM LIARS...
ReplyDeleteWELL I JUST POSTED SOMETHING I HAD TO GET OFF MY CHEST ABOUT MY DAD/FAMILY..HIS WORDS...HIS LAST TWO WORDS...NOW I AM DRINKING GREEN TEA, EATING SPINACH, AND CHICKEN/ STUFFING AND WILL LAY DOWN IN A FEW....
sounds very nutritious....thanks for the references....
ReplyDeletegoing to read your post
no sweetie..I gotta love my colts!
ReplyDeletecool..did they win?
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